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Dan Cruver on being adopted and adopting

A few days ago I mentioned the sermon Dan Cruver preached entitled “God’s Story of Adoption”. I just got the chance to listen all the way through, and I want to highlight a few of Dan’s key points.

In the sermon, Dan explains why it is that theological adoption is such an important concept in the Bible, in spite of the word “adoption” being used just 5 times in Scripture. Essentially, God’s adoption of His people has a “marking” function in the history of redemption. In other words, adoption plays a key role from the beginning (before God even created the world) all the way to the end (when all of God’s adopted children enjoy the full privileges of their adoption in the new heaven and new earth).

Particularly interesting is Dan’s explanation of how adoption relates to the doctrines of the Trinity, the fall of Adam, the election and failure of Israel, and the rescuing work of Jesus Christ that accomplished what God’s “other sons” failed to do. Dan points out that humans are created for sonship - to enjoy the love of God as sons, and to show the love of God in families. Because “sonship” is so important in God’s creative purpose, it is a travesty that there are orphans in the world - a mark of how damaged the creation is by sin.

A very important point (and one that I don’t recall Dan having talked about on the blog before) comes in during Dan’s conclusion. He says that when Christians adopt, they must not have the mindset of taking on a “project.” Adoption is not a “project”; instead, it is an expression of deep, abiding, and profound love. Adoption is about relationship: what an orphan needs most is a relationship with father and mother. I think that this way of thinking about adoption is very helpful to prospective adoptive parents who are sorting through their motivations and developing a mindset about adoption.

Of course, there’s so much more in the sermon, and I encourage you to listen to it. It’s rich and Christ-centered.

:: posted by josh ::

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  1. Comment by connie @ ChosenChild | 2007/11/10 at 01:33:19

    Josh, VERY nicely done! I listened to the sermon earlier this week and have been working on a blog post pointing my readers (all two dozen of ‘em!! Ha!) to Dan’s sermon. But YOU have done such an excellent job that I’m just going to point them to YOUR post!

    BTW, as an adoptive mother of two I whole-heartedly and loudly agree with the points Dan made on the mindset of taking on a ‘project’! Oh, what a huge mistake that is! Yes, there should be goals and plans made, but those must be guided by the gospel not by our culture and how the world views adoption.

    The “relationship” is KEY to adoption, especially when adopting older kids who have the history and ability to understand what poor/weak relationships look like. If I/we take our children on as ‘projects’, then we end up being nothing more than caregivers like the people who come and go in the orphanages. By contrast, the relationship we as Christian parents must establish is to mirror the relationship of our heavenly Father–it is lasting and it is complete! No longer strangers (often from a strange land), but total and complete family members!

    Sorry, I’m not a woman of “few words” when it comes to adoption! Thanks for this clear and excellent post!

  2. Comment by Dorothy Bode | 2007/11/11 at 17:17:03

    Thanks Josh for posting this summary! It inspired me to plant myself in a chair and listen to the ‘rest’ of the sermon. Until you reviewed it I had listened to the first 10 minutes, four seperate times. But that’s just reality with so many blessings scooting around under my feet. I am so glad that I made time to hear the rest. Problem is, I’m already addicted to the joy God brings through adoption and now I just don’t want to stop. Good thing I don’t have to ask how many is enough - God is deciding that one and His plans are perfect!


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